satanfindsmeattractive

whatbethsays:

therothwoman:

Can we talk about how Hairspray is a story where a not-conventionally-attractive girl gets the hot guy in the end without having to Become “Pretty.” Because we need more stories like that.

THIS FUCKING MOVIE THOUGH. 

JUST WATCH IT. WATCH IT AGAIN. WATCH IT THREE MOTHERFUCKING TIMES BECAUSE I BET YOUR COTTON SOCKS THERE’S A WITTY ONE-LINER IN THERE THAT YOU’LL HAVE MISSED

IT IS A STORY ABOUT A CONFIDENT YOUNG WOMAN WHO DON’T NEED NO MAN BUT GETS ONE ANYWAY WHILE SHE DANCES HER ASS OFF AND SINGS LIKE A FUCKIN BEAST WHILE CALLING OUT RACIST BULLSHIT WITH QUEEN LATIFAH

IT HAS JOHN TRAVOLTA IN DRAG

IT HAS A CHARACTER GROWTH OF A PLUS-SIZE CHARACTER WHERE SHE DOESN’T FUCKING LOSE WEIGHT SHE BECOMES AMAZINGLY CONFIDENT IN HERSELF AND DOES WHAT’S DAMN RIGHT

I SHIT YOU NOT THIS MOVIE WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

seductivedarkabyss
seductivedarkabyss:

Dita and Manson about their marriage:  Dita:“I would not get married if I didn’t believe in it. I’ve always believed in tradition. I think both of us did, at the time. Let’s just say that it must have been something pretty bad for me to move out of the house after six years together and to pack up my stuff on Christmas Eve. I loved him, and this was the most painful thing I have ever had to go through. It’s been really difficult. It’s not what I expected when I got married, and I felt like I’d found the man of my dreams. But sometimes things change overnight, and you have to make a choice as to whether you’re going to respect yourself and say, ‘I’m not going to accept this. This is not okay.’ I’m not the first woman, or the last, to go through what I’m going through. I just keep reminding myself of that.”  Manson:  “Yes, it has an inconvenient, unfortunate parallel to getting married. I think they ultimately have to be associated. I don’t think that the relationship was… something to blame… as much as the, just the, the cliches of marriage. Being expected to change. Change who you are. I started to feel — and maybe this is only how I perceived it, or it’s what my ex-wife genuinely expected of me — but to have to change who I am because suddenly I’m supposed to be more responsible or adult or to have to apologize for who I am… It just ultimately wasn’t what I was prepared for. I think that somebody’s always going to suffer more. And I’d think I hurt her more. But only because she didn’t understand the amount of pain I went through before it became apparent to her. She didn’t understand that my idea of the relationship was suffering for longer than she knew. And so when things ended equally between us, she might have assumed that I didn’t care. Not realizing that I had been experiencing it for much longer.”

seductivedarkabyss:

Dita and Manson about their marriage:

Dita:

“I would not get married if I didn’t believe in it. I’ve always believed in tradition. I think both of us did, at the time. Let’s just say that it must have been something pretty bad for me to move out of the house after six years together and to pack up my stuff on Christmas Eve. I loved him, and this was the most painful thing I have ever had to go through. It’s been really difficult. It’s not what I expected when I got married, and I felt like I’d found the man of my dreams. But sometimes things change overnight, and you have to make a choice as to whether you’re going to respect yourself and say, ‘I’m not going to accept this. This is not okay.’ I’m not the first woman, or the last, to go through what I’m going through. I just keep reminding myself of that.”
Manson:
“Yes, it has an inconvenient, unfortunate parallel to getting married. I think they ultimately have to be associated. I don’t think that the relationship was… something to blame… as much as the, just the, the cliches of marriage. Being expected to change. Change who you are. I started to feel — and maybe this is only how I perceived it, or it’s what my ex-wife genuinely expected of me — but to have to change who I am because suddenly I’m supposed to be more responsible or adult or to have to apologize for who I am… It just ultimately wasn’t what I was prepared for. I think that somebody’s always going to suffer more. And I’d think I hurt her more. But only because she didn’t understand the amount of pain I went through before it became apparent to her. She didn’t understand that my idea of the relationship was suffering for longer than she knew. And so when things ended equally between us, she might have assumed that I didn’t care. Not realizing that I had been experiencing it for much longer.”